How I Feel After Last Night
Women say they want a guy with initiative, the guy that will walk up to them and strike up a conversation. They want a guy that makes them laugh and makes them feel comfortable enough to talk about anything.
But here ‘s the thing ladies, so we walk up to you maybe get your number and talk on the phone and text and after sometime we ask to take you on a date, and how do you respond? By pushing it away, like “this isn’t the guy that swept me off my feet”, but he did, he just did it slower. He was the guy that was there for you when you needed him, he made you laugh every time you talked on the phone, and those phone calls may have felt like only a few minutes long but they lasted an hour.
And if the reasoning that you say no to a date is because you look 5 years down the line and know you don’t wanna live where you do now, that’s not a good reason, he is here now, hoping to just get a chance and see what life with you might be like.
And if you don’t like him, don’t bead around the bush, just tell him.
But you have to ask yourself first, do you really not like him?
Because you may not think you liked him but you couldn’t live a day without his friendship, and a hug from him makes you forget all your troubles and he knows just the right thing to say when you’ve had a bad day, he lets you go when you don’t wanna talk and listens to you for hours when you just talk about nothing.
And that is love, not some superficial thing like I got butterflies in your stomach when you first saw him.
NO!
Love is the friendship that you never want to lose.
